Safe Deposit Box: A Confession
I have a confession to make. A long, long time ago in a galaxy far, far away my wife and I rented a safe deposit box. And we still haven’t put any of our really important stuff in it. That’s right, it’s been close to a year since we took the plunge and got a box, but we still haven’t updated our will, and I still haven’t created that personal finance ‘user manual’ that I’ve been meaning to put together. Our impending move has taken the wind out of our sails as far as the will goes (even though it was one of our very few New Year’s resolutions), as different states have different states have different laws, and we’d likely need to redo it as soon as we move (yeah, I know, lame excuse). So… Our safe deposit box currently contains a DVD backup of our digital pictures and our Disney World tickets.
Published on March 20th, 2006 - 14 Comments
Filed under: Banking
About the author: Nickel is the founder and editor-in-chief of this site. He's a thirty-something family man who has been writing about personal finance since 2005, and guess what? He's on Twitter!
Related articles...
» From the Archives – (March 16th – March 22nd)» One Year Ago This Week (March 18th – March 24th)
» The Best of FCN – Selections from 03/06
» Do You Have a Death Dossier?
» Tips for Preparing Your Estate Plan
» From the Archives (September 9th – September 15th)
» From the Archives (September 7th – September 13th)
» Frugal Confession: I Cut My Own Hair
Was this article useful? Please sign up to receive our content via e-mail:
14 Responses to “Safe Deposit Box: A Confession”
Leave a Reply
Top Cards by Category
Earn $200 Bonus Cash Back after you make $500 in purchases in your first 3 months. 5% Cash Back on up to $1,500 spent in bonus categories each quarter.
Earn 30,000 bonus miles toward Award Travel when you spend $500 on the Card in the first three months from account opening. Receive double miles on Delta purchases.
Earn 3X points on airfare, 2X points on gas and groceries, and 1X points on everything else.
No Balance Transfer Fee!* 0% Intro APR for up to 15 months on purchases and balance transfers. This card offers Blueprint, free and customizable account features that help you avoid unnecessary interest and pay your balances down faster.
Enjoy no balance transfer fee for a limited time. 0% introductory rate on Balance Transfers and Purchases. Earn up to 5% Cashback Bonus in categories that change like gas, restaurants, department stores and more. Limitations apply*
Enjoy no balance transfer fee for a limited time. 0% introductory rate on Balance Transfers and Purchases. Earn up to 5% Cashback Bonus in categories that change like gas, restaurants, department stores and more. Limitations apply*
Enjoy amenities for you and your business, like: complimentary airport club access, including American Airlines Admirals Club(R) lounges.
5% Cashback Bonus in categories that change like gas, restaurants, department stores and more. Limitations apply*. Up to 1% unlimited Cashback Bonus on everything else. No annual fee
Earn 3X points on airfare, 2X points on gas and groceries, and 1X points on everything else.
Reports to 3 major credit bureaus monthly and acceptance at millions of locations worldwide, including website purchases and reservations.
- How to Become a Millionaire
- How to Get Out of Debt
- The Best Dollars I've Ever Spent
- How Our Estate Plan is Structured
- How We Paid Our Mortgage In Less than 10 Years
- Money Making Ideas
- How to Manage Your Asset Allocation with Multiple Accounts
- Consumption Smoothing - Save While the Saving's Good
- How to Save on Groceries
- How Much Life Insurance Do You Need?
- Eleven Great Books About Money
- Dave Ramsey is Bad at Math
- Dish Network Customer Service SUCKS
- $8,000 Homebuyer Tax Credit
- Pay Off Mortgage Early or Invest?
- How to Claim the First-Time Homebuyer Tax Credit
- Reduced Credit Limits? Share Your Experience
- $15,000 Homebuyer Tax Credit
- Ethanol Blended Gas = Lower Mileage?
- Termite Control: Sentricon vs. Termidor
- How Much Should You Pay a Babysitter?
- Federal Income Tax Rates Went Down but Your Federal Tax Withholding Increased. Here's Why...
- Would the "Fair Tax" Gut the Economy?
How to save money on insurance
- The Best Values in Colleges - 2012 Edition
- Five Myths About Renter's Insurance
- Own Your Investments, Rent Your Fun
- Citibank to Issue Credit Cards in China
- Heartstrings and Pursestrings
- Saving Money at the Grocery Store: Store Brand Pricing on the Rise
- Missing Tax Paperwork?
- Is Your Investment Allocation Right?
- Chase Freedom Experimenting With Quarterly Rewards Auto-Enrollment
- Income-Based Repayment Plans for Student Loans

Tip It!
March 20th, 2006 at 2:53 pm
At this point, I would assume that you are going to close out the deposit box and get a new one when you move, correct?
You are in better shape than I am, though. I still do not have a safety deposit box in the first place, let alone a blueprint for what to do if something happens to me.
Assuming everything goes well I will have bought my first house in two weeks; maybe once I’ve done that I will look into getting a safety deposit box.
March 20th, 2006 at 2:54 pm
Yes, we’ll close out the box and re-open one at our new bank when we move.
March 20th, 2006 at 3:36 pm
We are starting year #3 of empty safety deposit box. I’m not proud of this fact, but there it is.
At least we remember the tax deduction.
March 21st, 2006 at 5:54 am
I have one, but use it only for certain confidential business records. (Of course, since I’m the managing partner and principal owner of the business, that might be classified as “personal finance”…but most people’s personal finances aren’t very concerned with such things as customer identity and credit card data.
)
Since I’m single without kids, my will is pretty simple. “If I die before my life gets interesting enough to replace this with a more complex will, everything I own goes to Catholic Charities.” It’s in legalese, but that’s what it says. Doesn’t seem worth storing in a safe deposit box…the copy my lawyer has is good enough for me. (Not to mention that, thanks to certain tax-avoidance arrangements with the business, I’ve deliberately made myself utterly paranoid about commingling business functions with personal ones.)
March 21st, 2006 at 9:00 am
The reason I don’t have one is probably irrational, but I worry the bank might just suddenly close and I would not be able to get my important papers back!
March 21st, 2006 at 10:55 am
My safe deposit box contains my will and trust (done last year), my “good” jewelry, as well as photos of household goods.
March 21st, 2006 at 1:36 pm
WE bought a home safe (fire resistant) and use it for all our important stuff.
March 23rd, 2006 at 12:07 am
I don’t have one yet, so I suppose you are ahead of me there. =)
March 25th, 2006 at 10:56 pm
I see several people above mention putting their will in their safe deposit box. In general, this is a bad idea, since the box may be sealed at the time of death, and the will inaccessible. Your lawyer should have a copy of your will, and keep one at home. If you want, keep one in the box, but not the only one.
March 26th, 2006 at 7:04 am
Paul, that’s a great point. In most (all?) states, safe deposit boxes are sealed upon the owner’s death, and can only be opened upon a court order. Thus, sticking the only copy of your will in your safe deposit box can really slow things down.
July 19th, 2006 at 2:12 pm
If the only person who is on the signature card for the box is dead, then of course no one else can get into it without a court order. However, you should put someone else you trust on the signature card for the box; at the very least the executor of your estate. I am guessing the rules are different from bank to bank and state to state, but I am used to two keys being given out. One you have in a safe place for yourself alone. The other is to be kept in a separate safe place that the other people know about and can get to, but do not necessarily have it in their direct possession. Also, remember if you ever need to close a box due to a move or whatever you will need to return both keys to the bank; otherwise there will probably be a service charge.
May 6th, 2007 at 3:24 pm
Yes, that works if you’re a co-signer on the box. But if not, then there’s no way in other then to notify them that the owner died, at which point the box is sealed until the courts order it be opened.
September 26th, 2007 at 2:24 pm
Actually, many states (approx 31) have a provision to deal with this. A person in posession of the key and a valid death certificate can generally access the box soley to remove any will, trust, or other related documents. A copy of the document must remain in the safe deposit box.
May 11th, 2011 at 11:06 am
In any case, you should never put a will in a safe deposit box. They are sealed after death. Have your lawyer and executor keep copies for safety.
In this era, a fireproof safe is probably the best way to go. There are also theft proof safes, but fire is a greater threat to most documents.
My father, back in the day, used to store stock certificates and coupon bonds in a safe deposit box. That function is now moot, given book entry and on-line access.
One might also consider scanning documents such as tax returns (if they have not been prepared using a tax program.)