Eight Tips for Raising Money-Dumb Kids

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Eight Tips for Raising Money-Dumb Kids

Lots of articles try to convince you that raising money-smart kids is a good idea, but you know better. Who wants kids who limit their immediate gratification by putting money in a savings account? And every parent knows life is a lot better if you shut your screaming kid up by buying her everything she wants at Toys R Us, right?

If you sometimes worry that your kid is too wise and worried about money, just follow these eight tips and nip that fiscal responsibility in the bud:

1. Buy them everything they want

Hey, let’s be honest, isn’t life better when you just buy the little duffers whatever they want? It stops the whining immediately and keeps the kids busy for a few minutes so you can enjoy that $5 latte you just bought. So what if they start to believe that they’re entitled to everything? Isn’t entitlement the American way? We deserve it all!

2. If they break it, replace it

Oh, poor little Johnny stepped on his new squirt gun that he tossed on the floor last night. It’s busted and he’s bawling. Don’t put up with that — rush over to Walgreens and buy him another one right now! You don’t want the kid to learn about consequences, do you? That might spoil his morning.

3. Teach them that money grows in your wallet

Your kids don’t care how long and hard you work for your paycheck, so don’t bother discussing the connection between work and pay. Instead let them believe money just miraculously appears whenever they want something. Life is lot more magical that way! Don’t spoil their youth by suggesting that life could possibly be anything other than one happy day of overconsumption after another.

4. Set a bad example

Hey, kids do as their parents do, right? So teach them slovenly financial habits by displaying those habits yourself! Run up your credit cards, pay your bills late (if you bother to pay them at all), buy lots of cheap stuff you don’t need, don’t use coupons, don’t take care of your possessions, buy the latest smart phone even if the one you have is perfectly good, run the water while you brush your teeth, drive your gas guzzling SUV even when you’re just going around the corner to pick up another sack of burgers instead of making dinner yourself…

5. Provide a nice fat allowance

Since money practically grows in your wallet (see item 3 above), why not share the wealth with your kids? Don’t hold back, especially when they’re teenagers. After all, you don’t want your kids to be out with friends and run out of money, do you? Someone might think you’re poor! Instead, give your children a big enough allowance to let them treat the whole gang when they go to McDonalds.

6. Chores? Please!

Don’t bother asking your kids to do anything to earn the money you’re doling out to them. After all, this might teach them the concept that money comes from hard work, which is such a drag (see item 3 above). Wouldn’t life be better if no one needed to work? Let your kids enjoy that fantasy for as long as possible. And don’t even think of asking them to mow the neighbor’s lawn or get a part time job when they’re teens — come on, they’re only young once!

7. Discourage saving

If Grandma sends Madison $25, march her to Target right now before that money burns a hole in her pocket! Saving money is so overrated — have you seen the dismal interest rates banks pay on savings these days? And forget teaching your kids how to invest in the stock market — it’s bound to crash again some day. Your kids are much better off blowing through the money right now.

8. Skip the thank you notes

Speaking of that gift from Grandma, don’t trouble yourself trying to get your little honey to sit still long enough to scratch out a note of thanks. That’s so old fashioned! Why should your children be grateful for what others give them? They’re entitled to it, right? Writing a thank you note might remind them that they aren’t the center of the universe, and you certainly don’t want to burst that bubble!

You might read somewhere that kids who learn how to handle money grow up to be money-smart adults, but wouldn’t you rather have kids who live in the moment and don’t worry a whit about the future? Life will be much more fun for them, right? Right?

12 Responses to “Eight Tips for Raising Money-Dumb Kids”

  1. Anonymous

    My husband and I are dealing with the aftermath of his parents who took these tips to heart.
    His brother and sister are in deep financial trouble and looking for a bailout that will never come-his parents both passed away last year. Even though they split all the inheritance and property, they blew through it and are now worse in debt than before. Time for them to wake up-no bail out here!

  2. Anonymous

    I think that financial literacy should be taught starting at a young age. But most importantly I also think that it will be better for parents to get re-acquainted with the concept themselves. Financial literacy should be a lifelong learning experience which begins at home.

  3. Anonymous

    My friend and I have a running joke about who deserves the “Bad Mommy of the Week” trophy. Your suggestions might just give me the edge in winning this week’s prize!

    I like your sense of humor. Although we may know what we should do to teach our kids about money management, flipping the perspective really drives the points home.

  4. Anonymous

    My parents could have used your help when raising me. I wanted a tent to go camping but didn’t have the money for it. My Mom proceeded by putting the tent on layaway at the store and every week, I would do chores to earn $10. She would take me to the store where I would put the money towards the tent. After a few weeks, I bought my tent. It was a great lesson in learning to value what you have earned.

  5. Anonymous

    Don’t forget to set them in front of the TV from morning to night, preferably with any non-PBS station so that they can get a good dose of commercials. (Oops – I might be guilty of this myself, better go turn the thing off…) Actually, we try to keep the tube watching to a minimum in our house – to try to fight the culture of accumulation to some extent while encouraging outdoor time. I realize it’s a losing battle, sometimes…*sigh*

  6. Anonymous

    Ha! I knew my parents were wrong to teach me that hard work is valuable and that starting to work on my own was a horrible idea! Should have played more video games!!

  7. Anonymous

    Well, we did just about all those things. My son grew up to be a very frugal man. Yea verily, he’s even more frugal than I am…and that’s saying something.

    Is he the exception that proves the rule?

  8. Anonymous

    Hahah great post. The sad part is that far too many parents actually follow most of these tips. I think as soon as parents realize that the woman is pregnant, they should be forced to take parent training to pass some kind of test.

  9. Anonymous

    Nice! I’ve been looking for ways to destroy my kids’ future for a while now, haha. I was initially thinking about just signing them up for Toddlers with Tiaras but this is much easier… 🙂

  10. Anonymous

    There’s a great cartoon from Mint.com on their blog and YouTube called “Quest for Credit” that every kid should see before the culture of borrowing and spending takes hold of them.

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