Wedding Season Approaching!
My in-laws had a wedding last summer that was absolutely beautiful, and it didn’t break the bank. It didn’t happen by accident, though, as it took some planning on their part. Everyone there had a great time and I think they did a fantastic job organizing it.
Now that the peak wedding season is coming up, I thought it would be great to discuss more ways to save money on weddings.
Source of wedding funds
One factor to start off with is deciding where the money for the wedding will be coming from. Some couples pay the entire bill themselves, while others rely on family to help them out. Our parents were involved with financing our wedding, though we had some money set aside, as well. That was also the case with my sister and brother-in-law.
Where the money comes from will have some effect on your wedding plans. While you don’t want others to take over the planning, it would be nice for you to accommodate some of their requests if they’re helping to foot the bill. For example, they may want a vegetarian option and are willing to help with the reception costs.
Prioritize what’s important in your wedding
Prioritizing is a huge deal when designing your wedding day. If you’re planning out a debt free budget for it, you need to decide what parts of your wedding are especially meaningful. Do you want to have an intimate affair, or are you looking for a huge celebration in a relaxed setting?
It’s quite easy to get carried away by the emotional aspect of the ceremony and celebration and ignore the long-term effects of this one day on your future. Be careful not to start your marriage off on the wrong foot.
There are a lot of components to a wedding, and some are going to be more important to you than others. The Knot reports how the average wedding budget ($25, 000-who are these people?!) breaks down, not including the honeymoon:
- Reception: 48%-50%
- Ceremony: 2%-3%
- Attire: 8%-10%
- Flowers: 8%-10%
- Entertainment/Music: 8%-10%
- Photography/Videography: 10%-12%
- Stationery: 2%-3%
- Wedding Rings: 2%-3%
- Parking/Transportation: 2%-3%
- Gifts: 2%-3%
- Miscellaneous: 8%
Since only a portion of the money is due up front, have a plan for your savings. Until you have to start paying the vendors, you’ll probably want to maximize your money by stashing your money in a high interest savings account.
Choosing the right place for your wedding reception
As you can see from the average wedding budget, the biggest bill that can completely ruin your finances is the reception. The good news is that there are many way to cut down on costs. The biggest factors for reception costs are:
When you’re getting married
Getting married during the height of wedding season can raise your costs significantly, as you’re competing with other couples for the same venues. Having an off-season wedding can save you a lot of money without you sacrificing other items on your own budget.
You should also consider what day you want to get married. Moving your wedding from a Saturday to a Friday, for example, can decrease your costs quite a bit for the same wedding reception.
How many guests will be invited
Generally speaking, the bigger your guest list, the more expensive it will be. If you do want to have a lot of people at your wedding considering doing it off-season. We got married in December and got a great deal for our reception and our out-of-town guests got a fantastic rate.
Wedding reception location
Where you host your wedding reception is a big factor too, as popular venues tend to cost more. If you want to minimize travel and save some money, you might consider having the ceremony and reception at the same location.
I would also ask around to see if any friends or family have inside reviews on the place. Do they have a reputation of providing wonderful service at a fair price? You should also ask questions with the location coordinator besides just the price.
- Do they accept outside catering? (It’s a possible way to lower your reception costs.)
- What is the room’s capacity?
- How early can the bridal party arrive?
- Are there any concurrent events? If so, how many?
- When is final menu picked?
- Are any decorations included? (You can negotiate with this very favorably at some venues.)
- What are their payment options and schedule?
- Do they offer tasting events before we book?
This is your day, and you’re going to spend some hard earned money, so don’t be afraid to ask specific questions. You don’t want to be surprised when you get your bill.
Shop around with multiple vendors
There are plenty of vendors that want to do have your business and you should take advantage of the situation. Pick your top 2-3 vendors and be ready to negotiate. By keeping price sheets and records of deals made with others, we received a 3rd dinner option and 3rd appetizer at a lower price as another vendor!
The specific flowers and time of year that you choose will have a big effect on price. Keep it simple and just choose one or two flowers to highlight in your bouquet. You may also want to incorporate more greenery into your flower arrangements.
Catering and cake
If you like having a big wedding, but your food budget is limited, have a buffet style wedding. Many guests will be too busy enjoying your special day to really care about whether the dinner is plated or buffet style. You can also have an appetizer-style reception that would work well with early afternoon weddings.
Reduce your wedding cake costs without losing your dream cake. For example, you could have a smaller, two-tiered cake with some additional sheet cake ready to be served to guests. You’ll still have the wedding cake pictures, and most guest won’t notice or care. Besides, they’ll probably be full from all the food they’ve just eaten!
Your wedding is only one piece of the puzzle
Planning and budgeting your wedding is also great way to start working together on your finances. It’s a learning experience, so don’t feel discouraged if you have arguments over some decisions. It’s how you handle them together that’s the bigger issue.
You should also learn to how to communicate with each other what your goals are for the wedding . Be prepared to stand united if anyone tries to ruin your day by butting in. Tensions may run high occasionally, but this is only one day. Hopefully, you’ll look back on your wedding many decades down the road with fond memories.
If you haven’t done so already, you should also take time to prepare and decide how you’re going to handle your day-to-day finances as a couple. For example, are you going to have joint or separate accounts? Be open with your current finances and decide to start off on the right foot for your marriage.
Your wedding tips
Okay, I’ve shared my tips… Now it’s your turn! What was the hardest part of planning your big day? How did you pay for it? Do you have any tricks for saving money? What was one of your favorite memories from that day?